Forty-six year old Christian happily negotiating the world with a wife and three daughters
With a combination of illness and the general busyness of the Christmas period, Rebekah and I ran out of time for our December walk to Cookham Dean and were forced to carry it over into January.
In the morning, we took down the Christmas tree and left it, with a variety of others, at a collection point near the river.
Then it was on to Cookham, for a cloudy, but thankfully dry walk.
In recent years, we’ve tried to get down to Bournemouth on New Year’s Day to blow the cobwebs away at the beginning of the year.
This year, where we’ve all been somewhat under-the-weather, we decided to go over to see the flooding at Henley, rather than venturing too far from home.
The weather was cold and sunny as we parked in the car park near the river and walked down to investigate how high the Thames was.
Given the chilly morning, we decided to head to the Chocolate Theatre Café for a drink.
To #Henley to see the floods. Decamped to the tropical heat of @ChocTheatreCafe to defrost.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) January 1, 2013
We enjoyed hot chocolates and the chance to warm up, before heading home.
Absolutely heaving today at Henley's @ChocTheatreCafe! Seems that we're not the only ones to think of visiting today.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) January 1, 2013
In the evening, we went over for tea to Mum’s house, having originally intended to go on Boxing Day.
Enjoyed our belated #BoxingDay tea at Mum's today, postponed due to all our illness over the festive period. Thankfully all improving now.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) January 1, 2013
We had a good day and it was a relatively gentle start to the New Year.
Last year, on New Year’s Day, I added a review of 2011. In many ways it hardly seems a year has flown by already since then – but what an amazing year it’s been!
For us, like 2013, January 2012 began with illness which curtailed our planned New Year’s Day visit to Bournemouth. Instead, we enjoyed a walk at Hambledon.

Looking across the weir at Hambledon
We also found time to explore Quarry Woods, where we hunted in vain for signs of spring.

Emily inspecting a tree at Quarry Wood
A year on from Dad’s passing, we took Mum for a meal at The Beehive where we enjoyed a great night reminiscing on the past – as well as some delicious food!

Chocolate fudge cake and cream at The Beehive
We spent an interesting day over at Milestones Museum, at Basingstoke. This huge building is full of streets and shops, designed to show how we used to live.

Two Nineteenth-Century children at Milestones
We also managed to find time during January to feed the ducks, put in some early work on the veg plot as well as visiting the Braywick Nature Park and having a meal at The Farmers Boy.

All the family at Cookham, after feeding the ducks

Four girls and a host of golden daffodils at Braywick Nature Park
Scarcely had February started, than the daffodils of January were hidden under a few inches of snow!

Rebekah, Holly and Emily
The girls enjoyed playing in the snow and played with their sledge as well as making a snowman.

Rebekah and Holly
A few days later, we had yet more snow and went down to Ray Mill Island with Freddie and Jen.

The working day must go on

Emily facing a sea of white on Ray Mill Island
As the last of the snow finally turned to slush, we went up to Cliveden to hunt out snowdrops and see how the work on the terrace was progressing.

Walking through slush up the drive at Cliveden
The final snow to disappear was that comprising Frosty the Snowman, who slowly vanished as the weather warmed up.

Holly and Rebekah with Frosty, 17th February 2012
February also saw us attending our annual church meal, where we had an evening of good food and fun.

Group shot from the 2012 Annual Meal
February also witnessed the resignation of Fabio Capello as England Football Manager as well as the passing of Whitney Houston and Liverpool beating Cardiff City to win the Carling Cup. Finally, as we reached the end of the month, there were palpable signs that spring was only just around the corner.

Winter aconite
March was an interesting month, as it marked the end of my sixteen years employment at Reach. Before we got there, there were other exciting events to pass through – not least of which was helping to assemble Mum’s new wardrobe!

The assembled wardrobe
We also managed to find time for a short walk at Ockwells Park and an excellent day in the warm sunshine at Bournemouth.

Heading off around the park

All the family on the beach at Bournemouth
With a precursor of bowling in Woking, the end of life at Reach arrived on 3oth March with an emotional day bidding farewell to a number of good friends.

Bowling cronies

Part of the farewell presentation for me

Some of the gang out to bid me farewell
As March turned to April, the biggest change for me was remembering to drive to Vodafone in Newbury, rather than to Woking! The warm weather in March had led to fears of drought and water shortages, then April arrived and all the fears were washed away.
We had a chilly walk over at Henley on Good Friday and enjoyed tea over at Mum’s on the Bank Holiday Monday.

Bandstand by the river at Henley

Mum with 3 of her grandchildren and Sarah
April was also Sarah’s birthday and we marked the occasion with lunch at Pizza Express, where I stupidly chose a ridiculously spicy pizza!

A ridiculous menu faux pas

Sarah
Later in the month, we once again found ourselves dodging the showers at the Berkshire College of Agriculture’s Lambing Weekend.

Holly at the top of the climbing wall
April ended on a wet note, with yet more rain. At least it gave a chance to jump in puddles!

Two soaked girls
May began with us attending Rebekah’s Spring Concert with Mum. Rebekah has been learning guitar at school for some months and each year the school hold a concert to show off their musical talent.

Rebekah with her fellow guitarists
May is also the month when Carters Steam Fair visit Maidenhead and we watched in the morning as they processed through the town.
Later in the day, we made our way over to Pinkneys Green to visit the fair.

Steaming past

Holly
As May progressed, we continued with further planting in the vegetable plot and also found time for another visit to Old Thatch, the former home of Enid Blyton.

View from the end of the veg plot with potatoes on the left and runner beans on the right

The fountain with Old Thatch in the background
During May, I had to spend two weeks on Jury Service at Reading Crown Court. This was my second batch of Jury Service and, aside from all the waiting for trials, it was an interesting experience.
We also managed to get along to Maidenhead Duck Derby and late in the month, on a rare hot day, we had an evening walk at Cookham.

Sarah, Emily and Holly on the train at Maidenhead Duck Derby

Enjoying the evening sunshine at Cookham
June arrived and brought with it Maidenhead Carnival which had been moved to link in with the weekend of activities for the Queen’s Jubilee Celebrations. On the extra Bank Holiday Tuesday, we made the most of a rare dry morning to make another visit up to Cliveden where they had painted a large 60 onto the back lawn. We also found time for more planting in the veg plot.

Sarah and Emily at Maidenhead Carnival

The family on a quiet morning at Cliveden
With a few days off work, we had a great day down in Bath, visiting the Roman Baths and Abbey, enjoying Ben’s Cookies and taking shelter from another cloudburst!

Looking down at the Baths below

Holly and Rebekah taking shelter
I accompanied one of our field team over to the Isle of Wight. This simple process involved setting my alarm for 4.15am and catching the ferry shortly after 7am. On the plus side, the weather was sublime and we had a great full English breakfast!

Looking back towards Portsmouth from the Isle of Wight ferry
We took Mum out for a birthday meal to the Bird in Hand and had a delicious meal of fish and chips followed by chocolate cake and ice cream.

Cod and chips for Mum’s birthday
Later in the month, five of us gathered, at the last minute for this year’s Overnight Walk. It was great for Andrew Burdett to come and join some of the more seasoned walkers for the first time. We even got to see the sunrise as we enjoyed our bacon rolls!

A new dawn breaks after the overnight walk
We went along to the school summer fair where rain was never far away and the gusty wind proved something of an inconvenience.

Rush to rescue the billowing marquee at the summer fair!
I also had a great day with some of the team from work – enjoying rally driving and cable ski.

Showing how it should be done
July arrived, and with it the realisation that the Olympics was less than a month away. Before it arrived, I was able to get tickets for an evening with Henry Blofeld who was on stage at the nearby Norden Farm. Sarah and I enjoyed an amusing evening and I was able to get Henry’s autograph afterwards.

Blowers acknowledging the warm applause
On 10th July the Olympic Torch Relay came to Maidenhead and we gathered with the crowds lining the route for a memorable day.

Flanked by the Torch Security Team, Abi Grainger holds the torch aloft
July also brought birthdays for Rebekah and Emily. Rebekah celebrated her 8th birthday with a bowling party while Emily reached the grand age of two.

Rebekah with some of her presents

Rebekah with her two best friends – Maisy and Tanisha

Emily hesitating in blowing out her candles – eventually Holly helped!
We also managed to fit in another visit to Cliveden.

Enjoying ice creams at Cliveden
Finally, on 27th July, after seven years of build-up, Danny Boyle’s London Olympics opening ceremony took place. What an amazing event it was and what a curtain-raiser for the days ahead.
On 4th August, we were able to enjoy our own experience of London 2012, with a day up at Wembley for one of the football quarter-finals between Mexico and Senegal. We got home in time to witness Super Saturday in the Olympic Stadium.

Sarah, Rebekah and Holly up at Wembley
The Olympics remained compulsive viewing during August and after it was all over I wrote a post about The Best Seventeen Days Ever.
During a busy month, we surprisingly managed to fit in visits to The Vyne, Ray Mill Island and Cliveden.

Looking across the lake to the house at The Vyne

Emily on Ray Mill Island

Mum and Rebekah at Cliveden
We also enjoyed a brilliant week away down in Kent where we seemed to spend most of our time visiting the seaside and castles. We had a great time.

Emily splashing in the sea at Broadstairs

Scotney Castle

The girls with ‘Fido’
After all the excitement in August, September was understandably quieter.
Dad’s gravestone was finally set in place after what seemed like months of finalising the process.
We enjoyed the early September warmth with a walk by the river at Maidenhead and later in the month, we enjoyed another visit to Carters Steam Fair – this time over at Holyport.

Maidenhead Bridge in the September sunshine

Rebekah and Holly with candyfloss from Carters Steam Fair
October was a relatively quiet month, following a busy summer.
We managed to get down to see some of the autumn colours on Ray Mill Island, around the middle of the month.
At the end of the month, I had a few days off work during half-term. We were able to get out to a few places including an excellent day in Oxford and a visit with Mum to the Ashridge Estate. October ended with a Light Night at our church – held as a safe alternative to Halloween.
November started with our now traditional outing to see the Cookham Scout’s Firework Display with the usual huge bonfire and fantastic fireworks.
A week later, we found ourselves back in Kent – this time as part of the celebrations for good friends Steve and Suz’s wedding.

The happy couple taking to the dance-floor
There were more celebrations a week later on as Holly celebrated her sixth birthday with friends at Pizza Hut.

Holly blowing out the candles
The month ended with a surprise visit from Jenson Button to Vodafone.
We normally watch the switching on of the Maidenhead Christmas lights but this year it was so wet we decided to go and see them a few days later.
Also in the Christmas spirit, as we moved into December, we took the girls up to Cliveden to meet Father Christmas.
December was as busy as ever and the girls took me out to Wimpy for my birthday. Later in the month, Holly was a star (literally!) at her Christmas play.
After much waiting, Christmas finally arrived and was greatly enjoyed, particularly by the younger members of the family!
Unfortunately we all suffered somewhat from the flu, following on from Christmas and only Holly and I were able to get to the traditional Christmas family gathering.
During the Christmas break, we were able to get out to see the flooded River Thames at Cookham and Marlow.
It’s truly been an astonishing year with the undoubted highlight being the Olympic Games coming to London – something we may not see again in our lifetime.
From a family perspective, we had a fantastic holiday down in Kent and visited numerous other exciting places during the year.
2012 was officially the second wettest year on record and the relentless rainfall had a detrimental effect on the vegetable plot with crop yields drastically down on last year.
It’s been an exciting year at Parkside where we enjoyed our best carnival ever and, later in the year, an excellent Carols by Candlelight on Christmas Eve. We’ve also started The Link Coffee Bar on Sunday mornings, which is proving popular. On a more practical level, we’ve had the main hall repainted and carpeted as well as new glass doors and signage on the building, all of which has freshened the place up.
We don’t know what 2013 will bring. Realistically it’s unlikely to be able to compare with the excitement of 2012. Regardless, I’m thankful to go into it married to a wonderful wife and having three brilliant daughters to keep us company and that most important of all, I know a God who watches over me every step of the way.
You can also see how the year unfolded on Twitter.
Goodbye 2012 – you’ve been amazing!
What an amazing year 2012 has been. Here’s how it unfolded in a few of my favourite tweets:
One year, #London should try and be classy and set the #NewYear fireworks to classical music #1812 #LandofHopeandGlory
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) January 1, 2012
@PhilBray Iron curtain is down – unlocked the fort knox that are my tweets #bigstep #dontmakemeregretit #vulnerable #exposed #frightened
— Pedro Miguel (@DataMan2000) January 2, 2012
There are few better ways to start the working day than with a 'New Year' embrace in the car-park with @Stuhezza.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) January 4, 2012
18th century victorian Phil #philinhats pic.twitter.com/DxqTfTug
— Sam Underhill (@s_underscore) January 4, 2012
Strong circuit with @PhilBray only strengthened by the purchase of a 6ft Christmas tree!! pic.twitter.com/C1sGS7JZ
— Sam Underhill (@s_underscore) January 11, 2012
Breakfast with Blowers who appears still to be wearing his stripy pyjama trousers
— Jonathan Agnew (@Aggerscricket) January 16, 2012
Haven't laughed/cried so much at work since @benji_bear1987 left. I have @PhilBray to thank! #hadtoleavetheroomtwice
— Ed Nicdao (@EdNicdao) January 24, 2012
A real fun day in the TMS box! And absolutely nothing is more fun than that!!!
— Henry Blofeld (@blowersh) January 25, 2012
Dedicating my #18ktweet to @LFC and #lfc fans @SeanAnnable @jameswatson5 @Sammy162 and @sparkyboybrian
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) January 28, 2012
Cat on the pitch at Anfield. Kop chanting "a cat, a cat, a cat, a cat, a cat, a cat, a cat"
— Henry Winter (@henrywinter) February 6, 2012
A quick trip to Dublin today should secure me the Carbon Footprint Of The Week award. #tobesure
— Stuart Herrington (@Stuhezza) February 17, 2012
Holden the front page! #SunonSunday
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) February 25, 2012
#twelveweekscan http://t.co/53gOXRj0
— Pedro Miguel (@DataMan2000) February 26, 2012
All over #lfc win on pens. Fantastic match. All credit to #ccfc for a superb effort. #carlingcup
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) February 26, 2012
First proper BBQ of the year, steak, sardines, squid, sausages and some lovely pork burgers along with a salad selection…
— Mikey Davies (@tucksontour) February 26, 2012
Saxon mist wreathing the reedswamps of regents park. Running weather.
— Nick Crane (@nicholascrane) March 2, 2012
Thanks for tweets about Jose for #eng. No chance. If Jose gets #eng job I'll swim the Thames dressed as Mrs Doubtfire. Not happening
— Henry Winter (@henrywinter) March 5, 2012
Had the delight and pleasure of dining with @JohnsonBeever and @benleighkelly for lunch. This was followed by their maiden #circuit!
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) March 20, 2012
Emotional cuddle with @JohnsonBeever finishing with a mumbled 'Don't be a stranger' as he walked off.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) March 20, 2012
@suziedewey – @PhilBray is really enjoying your cakes!! pic.twitter.com/VZicUIy
— Laura Peters (@Lawa86) March 30, 2012
Decent meal, with decent company. Take it easy @PhilBray , the good times will not be forgotten.
— Colin Sadler (@BigCol55) March 30, 2012
Here's to @PhilBray! A successful leaving day is over, it's been a lot of work but well worth it! Hope you enjoyed it all my man!
— Sam Underhill (@s_underscore) March 30, 2012
@PhilBray all the best my friend … Not only do I wish you all the success in the world but I would also begrudge you none of it #topman
— p (@hat_maker) March 30, 2012
@PhilBray I just found the tweet link… Feel free to RT x http://t.co/56mkzMYv
— Sam Underhill (@s_underscore) April 2, 2012
The Last Day – 30th March 2012 http://t.co/JrxHZGDd
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) April 3, 2012
RIP Jim Marshall. I SAID RIP JIM MARSHALL!
— Q A Pesto (@Quaristice) April 5, 2012
@DataMan2000 @philbray You do spout some drivel Stone.
— Stuart Herrington (@Stuhezza) April 14, 2012
RIP RMS Titanic and its 1500 passengers.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) April 15, 2012
Tobermory afternoon: lifeboat goes on shout & brings in yacht; tallship arrives in harbour; fishermen fix scallop dredger; rain stalks sun.
— Nick Crane (@nicholascrane) April 21, 2012
Just yards from Vodafone HQ, the MELLIFLOUS tones of a skylark pierce through the spring sunshine from an AZURE sky.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) April 30, 2012
http://t.co/Edjuqg5v – Some issues with the #rhubarb on the #vegplot. #gonetoseed #cutit
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) April 30, 2012
Still amuses me that one of our neighbours calls me Nick. After 13 years I haven't the heart to correct him!
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) May 1, 2012
Loved Steven Reid on Hodgson throwing teacups. "And a table if he has to. He's got that in his locker." He keeps a table in his locker?
— Phil McNulty (@philmcnulty) May 1, 2012
http://t.co/ziVFRa8O – Remember this @ManjitSagoo @jonathanworth @RunningGoat @Quaristice? #WindsorWindsor #halcyondays
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) May 3, 2012
Now they've lost two ballot boxes!! Is this London or Harare?
— Andrew Neil (@afneil) May 4, 2012
Toothy Returning Officer finally announces that Boris Johnson is re-elected as #MayorofLondon #Vote2012
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) May 4, 2012
Lovely night for a midnight walk with the dog. Pity the dog is black #HereSadieTutTutTutTutTutHereSadie pic.twitter.com/wcQs5Pj1
— Sean Parry (@seanparry) May 4, 2012
Too many buttons.. I'll just buy some clothes pic.twitter.com/qjEk1l51
— Pedro Miguel (@DataMan2000) May 5, 2012
Fowl play….there's a chicken on the pitch at Ewood. One for the Venky's. Yakubu chasing it off.
— Henry Winter (@henrywinter) May 7, 2012
http://t.co/sqJeatrW – #Maidenhead is getting into #GoldenJubilee mood already!
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) May 12, 2012
http://t.co/2ekTKClp – Klaxons blaring. Sun shining. Evocative aroma of steam. @CartersFair has arrived!
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) May 12, 2012
Kevin Hitchcock #qpr coach shouting "come on, come on" as news thru of Stoke goal. Hitchcock. Pure suspense.
— Henry Winter (@henrywinter) May 13, 2012
#mcfc score twice at the death to clinch the title. Absolutely unbelievable! Dismay for #mufc. Delight for #mcfc
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) May 13, 2012
A hush falls over the juror's waiting lounge. The only sound the gentle, reassuring click of knitting needles. Somewhere a page turns.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) May 15, 2012
@PhilBray welcomed at Reach Towers this morning by an astonishing corridor overhaul! #urban #hip #streetview pic.twitter.com/ulZ2Jqya
— Sam Underhill (@s_underscore) May 17, 2012
The end of an emotional and challenging week with a great bunch of individuals whose paths will never cross again.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) May 18, 2012
Hang up the BUNTING and turn up the TANNOY. The excitement is PALPABLE. I dedicate my #20ktweet to all my ERSTWHILE Twitter ENTOURAGE.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) May 19, 2012
http://t.co/ZRmZIphD – A banging drum, flurry of blacked-up faces and blur of harlequin colours. The Morris Men are in town!
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) May 20, 2012
http://t.co/SdEnIw7I – A pilgrimage to Dad's old work office – and the place I first had a summer job – formally #MilwardsShoes.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) May 24, 2012
https://twitter.com/TheMontyDon/status/206847887437606912
@PhilBray the circuit NEVER disappoints! pic.twitter.com/vknke1Ma
— Sam Underhill (@s_underscore) June 1, 2012
Belatedly caught up with the #Charles tribute to the #Queen through old home movies. Heartfelt. Touching. Emotional. Amusing. Genuine.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) June 1, 2012
There's something overtly British about a soaking choir singing 'Rule Britannia' outside in a June monsoon. #RiverPageant
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) June 3, 2012
Savour these moments and tell your children and grandchildren about them. #DiamondJubilee #proudtobeBritish
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) June 5, 2012
Tynemouth dusk, clean dinghy sails where sooty colliers once waited for the tide pic.twitter.com/Xn5mWYNs
— Nick Crane (@nicholascrane) June 13, 2012
Hi there pic.twitter.com/5kmGfyjH
— Stuart Herrington (@Stuhezza) June 13, 2012
https://twitter.com/TheMontyDon/status/214950707386785793
Shot, by a 4.15am alarm, into a narrow window: a place where @andrewburdett1 has retired for the night and before @DataMan2000 surfaces!
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) June 20, 2012
Serene morning. Firey amber glow of the sun searches out fingers of mist. A morning for the poet and early commuter.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) June 20, 2012
Underway on the #OvernightWalk. Guided by @andrewburdett1's head torch, we've managed 1km in 22 minutes. #slowprogress #inawood
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) June 22, 2012
@PhilBray @seanparry @ruthparry @sparkyboyrobert Yes, thank you all for making me so welcome. I really enjoyed myself – but now can't sleep!
— Andrew Burdett (@AndrewBurdett1) June 23, 2012
England despondent / Out on penalties again / The best team won though #Euro2012 #haiku
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) June 24, 2012
Top morning of rally driving with the team at #GlosRallySchool.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) June 28, 2012
Continued here.