Forty-six year old Christian happily negotiating the world with a wife and three daughters
Friday, 24th August
Today marked the first day of our week-long holiday, staying in Teacup Cottage, in the small village of Goodnestone, just outside Canterbury, in Kent.
I opted to wear my Hawaiian shirt in celebration of the holiday.
All set for #Kent. Choice of shirt especially for @DataMan2000. pic.twitter.com/ZRK6b803
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 24, 2012
We left home around 9am this morning and, after running a couple of errands, headed off on the first of our five motorways towards our destination.
Our route took in the M4, M25, M26, M20 and M2 – all of which were remarkably free of any delays.
Eventually we arrived at our first destination of the day, the Little Chef at The Gate, on the A2. Disappointingly, we found that it was no longer trading and had actually closed down just four days earlier.
@philbray Hi Phil, no, our announcement at the beginning of the year told how many would shut and that they would be phased through the year
— Little Chef (@littlechefcouk) August 24, 2012
Instead, we made our way into the crowded, bustling town of Canterbury where we ended up eating in a crowded, bustling McDonalds. After lunch we had a wander around some of the shops in the town before eventually heading off to our accommodation and arriving around 3.15pm.
Teacup Cottage is a new house, built as part of a number grouped together at one end of the village. Downstairs is a sizeable lounge, dining room, kitchen and small cloakroom. Upstairs there are a bathroom and four bedrooms. Furnishing is of a high quality throughout and the house is very comfortable.
Arrived at the delightful Teacup Cottage. Excellently furnished and the @sainsburys order arrived bang on time. Village very quiet.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 24, 2012
On the table was a basket containing cups and saucers, plates, cutlery and a fresh lemon cake. In the kitchen were fresh bread and other items. The fridge contained a bottle of wine – all very nice touches.
After exploring the house, our order from Sainsbury’s arrived and we were able to have some tea before heading out in the rain for a drive around the local area.
We initially drove down to Sandwich and then onto Deal, where the weather improved enough for us to see a rainbow over the sea.
Defeated by the chilly wind, we drove back to Teacup Cottage where the girls eventually managed to go to sleep.
Saturday, 25th August
Following a somewhat sleepless night, we awoke to rain and the weather this morning was, to say the least, mixed.
Darkness ebbs away / daylight peers through the curtains / black replaced by grey #haiku #night #insomnia
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 25, 2012
Having been there yesterday, we decided to venture back to Deal and braved the heavy rain showers en route.
By the time we arrived, the rain had eased into more of a heavy drizzle. We managed to eventually find a car park in Deal and the girls decided they would prefer to see the beach rather than the shops.
We steered them towards the seafront and walked along the pier in blustery conditions – Holly and I both clutching on to the umbrella which threatened to turn itself inside out more than once.
To #Deal pier in the rain. Taking shelter from the inclement weather in the new restaurant.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 25, 2012
Gulls twist in the wind / cloud blankets the white horses / persistant drizzle #haiku #Deal
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 25, 2012
Eventually we reached the solace of the new restaurant which had opened since our last visit some five years ago.
This bright and airy establishment offers a variety of hot food and drinks and was at least half full of hardy individuals who had sought refuge on a wild morning. The restaurant looks out on the sea on two sides, giving the impression that the diners are aboard a ship.
The girls chose milkshakes while I opted for a hot chocolate and Sarah chose her standard tea.
By the time we left, the rain had eased off and the visibility out over the sea had increased.
We made our way into town and found an excellent bakers offering tempting delights which we eagerly partook of.
The rain was falling again when we got back to the car and we sat for a while waiting for conditions to improve, before taking the short drive round to Deal Castle.
Deal Castle, owned by English Heritage, is a compact warren of passages and tunnels all arranged in the shape of a Tudor rose.
We enjoyed exploring all around the site and had a picnic on the top of the castle, overlooking the beach and pier.
The weather had relented enough to enable us to get down onto the stony beach and we had a short walk along watching the waves crashing onto the shore.
We left Deal and drove the short distance up the coast to Ramsgate, where we drove along past the harbour before returning back to our cottage where we enjoyed a steak pie with a bottle of champagne which had been left in the fridge for us on our arrival.
Sunday, 26th August
With better weather forecast for today, we decided to make the most of the sunshine and drove to Margate to spend some time on the beach.
Margate doesn’t seem to have the clearest signposts and we drove a couple of times along the seafront in search of a car park, before finally locating one next to a defunct amusement park.
Walking out of the car park, we passed another empty building with many of its windows smashed, it seemed to sum up Margate – a little tatty, with its better days behind it. A man was picking up rubbish in the large car park but it all seemed a bit futile to me:
Saw someone clearing rubbish in #Margate. Sadly it's just papering over the cracks. The whole seafront needs renovating.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 26, 2012
It was the same as we approached the seafront – amusement arcade after amusement arcade – Margate seems brashly to be trying to hold on to its glory days.
Its faded glory / lost beneath peeling paintwork / seafront past its best #haiku #Margate
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 26, 2012
We made our way on to the beach – the first visitors of the day – and immediately hired a windbreak to offer some protection from the bracing westerly wind.
The girls enjoyed playing on the sand for a while and even Emily, who had previously displayed a reluctance to even walk on sand, seemed to enjoy having her feet covered with it!
Among the many entertainment establishments, we had spotted a Wimpy which we later visited for lunch.
After lunch, we made our way back to the car and drove the short distance around to Broadstairs.
Again, parking seems slightly confusing with many cars just parking in the roads. We managed to park in a field which was ‘650 yards’ from the beach.
Broadstairs is much more pleasant than Margate. Whether it’s the lack of obvious amusement arcades, the old-fashioned beach huts or the more intimate nature of the beach, it’s hard to tell.
The beach itself was busy when we arrived and was bathed in sunshine. Even the bracing wind seemed to have abated and I was immediately forced to roll my jeans up – having neglected to opt for shorts!
The girls all enjoyed paddling in the sea and we had an ice cream later on before heading back to our holiday cottage for bacon rolls.
Monday, 27th August
In the morning, we were again up early and out of the house around 9am.
Today we're off to visit @DockyardChatham and then dinner with an old friend later.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 27, 2012
We took the A2 and drove the ‘scenic route’ up to Chatham to see the historic dockyard. Following a slight mishap where we almost ended up at Chatham Docks by mistake, we managed to find our correct destination.
Chatham Historic Dockyard needs a whole day to explore properly. Although it cost us £45 for a family ticket, it was money well spent as we were occupied all of the time we were there.
We began by looking at The No. 1 Smithery where among other things, the girls were able to see the Pipe-bending floor and see how the pipes used on big ships were hammered into shape using pegs. We also looked at models of various famous ships including the Victory, which was built at Chatham Docks.
Probably the highlight of the day was the Victorian Ropery where the tours are taken by people in period costume and include not only seeing the history of rope making, but also taking part in a practical demonstration of the craft. Rebekah was pleased to be chosen to help out and was given a length of the rope that she had helped to create as a memento of the occasion.
After a picnic lunch, we explored the Three Historic Warships displayed at Chatham. These are HMS Cavalier, HMS Ocelot and HMS Gannet.
By the time we’d looked around The RNLI Historic Lifeboat Collection, viewed the objects in The Big Space and seen inside the two-hundred year old church, the time was getting on and we ended up looking in the shop having missed out a couple of the exhibits.
After leaving the Dockyard at around 4.40pm, we made our way to visit an old work friend, Jane, who lives in nearby Gillingham. She cooked a lovely roast chicken meal for us and it was excellent to chat about the olden times with her.
We finally made it back to our cottage on the stroke of 9pm after a busy but enjoyable day.
Spent a great day at @DockyardChatham and a great meal with Jane tonight. Lots to catch up on.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 27, 2012
Tuesday, 28th August
After being home late last night, we left a bit later this morning and made our way up to the coastal town of Whitstable.
We parked alongside the seafront and walked along beside the pebbly beach, separated by wooden groynes. The girls played among the pebbles and searched for shells among the stones.
Afterwards, we walked on a bit further until we came to some brightly coloured beach huts, arranged in four rows. They were generally well maintained and we saw at least two of them being painted while we were there.
Vibrant hued beach huts / parade behind the pebbles / basking in sunshine #haiku #Whitstable
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 28, 2012
When we left the beach, we drove to a car park in the town and picked up lunch at a bakery in Whitstable. We had a little time to walk along the main shopping street and were impressed with the vast array of small independent shops and lack of national chains.
#Whitstable epitomises all that a High St should be: a mixture of bustling, independent shops that give the town its character. @maryportas
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 28, 2012
After topping up with petrol we made our way to Herne Bay and parked by the pier.
The beach at Herne Bay is similar to that at Whitstable and largely consists of pebbles. We spent some time walking along behind the beach before making our way down to the sea. Rebekah and Holly spent a long time creating a ‘water park’ in some sand which they found among the pebbles.
Afterwards, we had a walk along the short pier and spotted the isolated end of the pier out in the bay where it has remained since a storm in 1978 and the demolition of the remainder of the pier in 1980.
We left Herne Bay and made our way to the only other Little Chef, which I had earlier checked was still trading.
@philbray It is at the moment Phil, but will be closing soon as part of the January announcements.
— Little Chef (@littlechefcouk) August 28, 2012
Unfortunately, when we arrived at 4.30pm, despite having a sign on the door saying that they were open until 5.30pm, the restaurant door was locked and there were no sign of any staff. While I was tweeting the below, we saw three members of staff emerge at around 4.40pm and drive off in a car.
It’s a shame that, despite the restaurant being earmarked for closure back in January (11 January 2012), that the staff seemingly didn’t care enough about the damage to the brand that their slackness would cause.
@littlechefcouk It's a shame that the #Whitstable LC can't even be bothered to stay open until 5.30. Closed at 4.30. pic.twitter.com/02aPJmGt
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 28, 2012
We ended up driving back to the cottage and eating there instead.
Wednesday, 29th August
Today we're off to #Dover and the hidden delights of @EHdovercastle.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 29, 2012
With rain spreading from the west forecast for later in the day, we decided to head east and made our way to Dover Castle.
Managed to leave camera at the cottage. Fortunately had the #Panasonic in the car for @EHdovercastle.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 29, 2012
Once there, given the price of the entry to the castle and the cost of annual membership, we decided to join the English Heritage.
Dover Castle has much to see and explore and we began by looking around the Great Tower where many of the rooms have been furnished as they would have been in the time of Henry II.
After a morning coffee and a browse in the shop, we moved on to the Anglo-Saxon church and Roman lighthouse, before enjoying a windy picnic in the grounds.
After lunch, we headed to The Underground Hospital to experience a tour of the Medical Dressing Station, built and used during World War II.
We later had a ride on the land train to reach the distant parts of the castle as the weather threatened to close in.
Following a welcome piece of cake in the restaurant, we headed back to Teacup Cottage.
Thursday, 30th August
Today, with the weather looking somewhat inclement, we decided to make our way to the National Trust property Scotney Castle, located around 1.5 hours from our cottage in Kent.
Leaving around 9.30am, we arrived on the stroke of 11am, as the house opened and were ushered into a relatively small car park.
To @scotneycastleNT!
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 30, 2012
Our first point of call was the house which we enjoyed looking around. As usual with National Trust properties, children are well catered for and there was a special map for the girls to use, as well as something to spot in each room.
By the time we finished, it was approaching 12pm and we made our way to the restaurant for a bite to eat.
We chose various scones and croissants and took our place in the restaurant only to find ourselves being bothered by wasps. We moved outside and had the same problem. Then it started to rain and we were forced back inside, still accompanied by the wasps who seemed intent on depriving us of our lunch.
Holly concentrated on eating her lunch while Rebekah ended up outside sheltering by a window. It was unfortunately the one disappointing aspect of the day.
@PhilBray Oh, wasps are a nuisance! Did you mention to staff @scotneycastleNT? Hope it didn't spoil your meal 🙂
— National Trust (@nationaltrust) August 30, 2012
After our slightly disjointed lunch, we went to the garden where Rebekah soon perked up when she had to complete a tree hunt in the grounds.
With rain an ever-present threat, we had a look around the old castle in the grounds before heading back to the ubiquitous shop.
The visit ended with a look around the walled garden where we were able to see what our vegetables should have looked like!
We finally left around 3.30pm and were back by 5pm.
In the evening it was time to begin the necessary task of packing, although the bulk of the clearing up would be left until the morning.
Friday, 31st August
Today was the day we finally had to bid farewell to Kent and return home to Maidenhead.
After clearing up in the morning and finishing the packing, I took a few photos of the house before we drove off to our planned stop at Ightham Mote.
We began our visit to Ightham in the restaurant before walking around the outside of the castle.
Another day, another @nationaltrust property. Hot chocolate and cake at the excellent @NTIghthamMote. pic.twitter.com/BA1yY1O5
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 31, 2012
Ightham Mote is a beautiful 14th Century moated manor house which has been owned by the National Trust since 1985. As well as the house, there are also attractive formal and informal gardens including a lake.
We enjoyed walking around the inside of the house before coming back outside to explore some of the grounds.
Despite the fact that this was our first visit to Ightham, we all agreed that it was one of our favourite National Trust properties. All to soon we found ourselves in the shop and then back on the M25 where we encountered some heavy traffic following an accident.
Eventually, by late afternoon we arrived back in Maidenhead after a brilliant week away.
What will I remember most about our time in Kent? Whitstable and Broadstairs were lovely, there were some great National Trust and English Heritage properties and, of course, the delightful Teacup Cottage which I’d like to return to again at some stage.
A few more of my photos from Kent can be found at my photo blog.
Rebekah and I just managed to squeeze our August walk to Cookham Dean in ahead of our family holiday in Kent.
Here are a handful of photos from the afternoon.
A few of my favourite tweets from the London 2012 Olympics:
Just heard start of Olympic opening rehearsal from outside stadium. Can reveal it opens with a booming voice saying: 'testing, testing 123'
— Jon Sopel (@BBCJonSopel) July 23, 2012
So ready for the Olympics to start! #teamgb http://t.co/OdtCuCMP
— Laura Robson (@laurarobson5) July 25, 2012
Stupendous goal from just over the halfway line for #rsa in the women's football. #swe 3-1 #rsa #BBCOlympics #Olympics2012
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) July 25, 2012
Olympic Games (n.) whereby London is clear'd of all Traffic & Logos so that the World may partake in a gargantuan PE LESSON
— Samuel Johnson (@DrSamuelJohnson) July 26, 2012
Pic: A stunning #London2012 Olympic Park sunset is the perfect backdrop for the Olympic Rings. The Games begin tomorrow pic.twitter.com/5vR8Qbmd
— London 2012 (@London2012) July 26, 2012
Btw remember to ring your bell with Big Ben and all the country on Friday morning for @AllTheBells at 0812am Ding dong! #allthebells
— Boris Johnson (@MayorofLondon) July 26, 2012
'Greatest show on Earth' / London, the world is watching / The wait ends today #haiku #Olympics2012 #London2012
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) July 26, 2012
In absence of a bell to ring for #Allthebells, I'm forced to toll my car keys! #Olympics2012
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) July 27, 2012
Happy #Olympics day everyone! Can’t wait to see the opening ceremony tonight; very exciting! #london2012
— Jonathan Worth (@jonathanworth) July 27, 2012
Right, here we are, in #KidwellsPark #Maidenhead, as darkness descends with five minutes to go. Go on #London, my love: blow the world away.
— Andrew Burdett (@AndrewBurdett1) July 27, 2012
Mr Bean plays Chariots of Fire! This is even better than Bond & the Queen parachuting out of the plane! #Olympics #london2012
— Jonathan Worth (@jonathanworth) July 27, 2012
Immensely impressive Olympic flame. Terrific #openingceremony night. Congratulations to all involved. #Olympics2012
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) July 27, 2012
Pic: Fireworks shoot towards the night sky above the #London2012 Olympic Stadium during last night's #OpeningCeremony pic.twitter.com/JEZHDSZ9
— London 2012 (@London2012) July 28, 2012
ICYMI: #Olympics 2012: Opening ceremonies — http://t.co/HfKjqW1u #london2012 #coolbrittania
— The Big Picture (@big_picture) July 29, 2012
London 2012 Opening Ceremony: Isles of Wonder – 27 July 2012 http://t.co/Uj1H8NlV
— Andrew Burdett (@AndrewBurdett1) July 29, 2012
http://t.co/CRUpbAiv Very funny Boris piece on reasons to be cheerful about the Olympics. Praises Tessa Jowell who "pernoctates" in village
— Rory Cellan-Jones (@ruskin147) July 31, 2012
#Olympics2012 is compulsive viewing. It's a pity the Olympics is only on every four years.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) July 31, 2012
30,000 at Dorney cheering Glover/Stanning to Olympic glory! Amazing atmosphere! Amazing scenes!
— Jonathan Worth (@jonathanworth) August 1, 2012
First @TeamGB gold achieved! Congrats to Helen Glover and Heather Stanning who score gold in the women's rowing pair. #Olympics2012
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 1, 2012
The Olympics get better & better. Boris Johnson currently stuck on a zipwire in Victoria Park http://t.co/6zMu60cO
— Jonathan Worth (@jonathanworth) August 1, 2012
Presumably @bradwiggins has now also sewn up Sports Personality of the year as well as the Tour de France and Olympic gold. #SirBrad
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 1, 2012
Britain's golden day / blood, sweat and tears rewarded / memories linger #haiku #olympics2012 @TeamGB @bradwiggins
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 1, 2012
Just watching the Olympic opening ceremony again. God, it's good. Danny Boyle is a genius. Britain is the best country…in the world.
— Jeremy Clarkson (@JeremyClarkson) August 2, 2012
What a day! Can't do it justice in 140 characters how it felt to win in front of the home crowd. A day I'll remember for the rest of my life
— Chris Hoy (@chrishoy) August 2, 2012
Tremendous gold for @v_pendleton – victory made all the sweeter after the disappointment of yesterday. #london2012
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 3, 2012
It's 12 years since David Coleman hung up his microphone. Still miss his Olympic commentary. Also the late Ron Pickering. #awayyougo
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 3, 2012
Wonderful atoms at Olympic Park. #Gamesmakers tremendous. News reaching us of more glory for @TeamGB rowers & Ennis also going well. Hurrah!
— Jonathan Worth (@jonathanworth) August 4, 2012
Heading home from London with two tired girls. Enjoyable day and great to have actually been a part of #London2012.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 4, 2012
Simply the best day of British sport ever.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 4, 2012
Pinch yourself and make a note to tell your children and grandchildren about the 4th of August 2012. #SuperSaturday @TeamGB
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 4, 2012
Huzzah for @andy_murray – 100% British!
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 5, 2012
Blistering. Breathtaking. Brilliant. Bolt.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 5, 2012
Gold in the horse jumping. Well done to the horses and their pilots!
— Jonathan Howe (@heresjonniehowe) August 6, 2012
Hoarse after shouting at the radio for @chrishoy. Wonderful stuff.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 7, 2012
Incredible 800m final. Almost all of the runners ran PBs – all led home by Rudisha with a new World Record time of 1:40.91! #London2012
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 9, 2012
There is only one winner! There is only one Usain Bolt! Staggeringly good. #London2012
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 9, 2012
@PhilBray haha yeah 🙂
— Keri-anne Payne (@KeriannePayne) August 9, 2012
I genuinely think I'm going to cry when these Olympics are over!
— James Watson (@jameswatson5) August 9, 2012
@PhilBray it will be! #Rio2016
— Ruebyn Richards (@RuebynRichards) August 9, 2012
@RuebynRichards Can't imagine how proud I'd feel even if you just competed there. Mind-blowing if you won. Imagine your Grandad's reaction!
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 9, 2012
@PhilBray @Ben_Duffy maybe some trikes for the closing ceremony #hithere
— Jonathon Beever (@JohnsonBeever) August 10, 2012
Love how down-to-earth @nicolaadams2012 and all of @TeamGB are. Honest. Passionate. Brilliant. Wish #London2012 could go on longer.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 11, 2012
The Olympics has given us a manifesto for how to build our future across business & industry. Invest, Give, nurture, respect, smile & win.
— Mary Portas (@maryportas) August 11, 2012
LOVE THIS. —– Keep the flame alive: The Olympic legacy and the new country we could be via @Telegraph http://t.co/4r0nuEty
— Andrew Burdett (@AndrewBurdett1) August 11, 2012
29 Gold, 17 Silver and 19 Bronze #OurGreatestTeam
— UK Sport (@uk_sport) August 12, 2012
@PhilBray that would be the great Eddie Butler…
— Mikey Davies (@tucksontour) August 12, 2012
Excellent applause for the volunteers, without whom #London2012 would have been a failure.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 12, 2012
The sight of @MayorofLondon dancing to the Spice Girls has been the highlight of a drab #closingceremony
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 12, 2012
The closing montage got me. Top work. Thanks for all the memories #london2012 and the #BBC.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 12, 2012
Pic: looking up from inside the #London2012 Olympic Stadium at the colourful fireworks lighting up the sky pic.twitter.com/LaYKEaNz
— London 2012 (@London2012) August 13, 2012
Watching Eddie Butler's wonderful review of the Olympics 'A Golden Games'. My goodness that man can write to pictures. Sheer poetry.
— Dan Roan (@danroan) August 13, 2012
As the flame burns down / treasured memories remain / Britain did it right #haiku #london2012 #ClosingCeremony #proudtobeBritish
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 12, 2012
On a sunny afternoon, we took Mum up to Cliveden to see the reconditioned dolls house and new café which had recently opened in the grounds at Cliveden.
The girls enjoyed spending some time in the play area before stopping for an ice-cream.
After enjoying our ice creams, we made our way to the Water Garden before heading back to the car.