Forty-six year old Christian happily negotiating the world with a wife and three daughters
2011 has been something of a roller-coaster year for me.
January began with Dad in Wexham Park Hospital and us coming to terms with the recent loss of Grandma. We spent some time planning Grandma’s funeral, but before we reached the day of the funeral we had to say goodbye to Dad who lost his courageous battle with heart failure on 20th January, while still in hospital.
We had a great turnout for Grandma’s funeral on 28th January, and the service was full of contributions from her many grandchildren. The only thing she wouldn’t have enjoyed was the bitter wind!
As February arrived, it found us planning another funeral – this time for Dad – the best Dad I could ever hope to have had. We had an excellent turnout on what was a challenging and emotional day. After the service, while we enjoyed refreshments at Parkside Christian Fellowship, we projected some photos of Dad including the one below.
With half-term the same week as the funeral, it was good to be able to enjoy a walk up at Cliveden in the winter sunshine.
As March dawned, it was good to be able to enter a month without having to plan another funeral! We enjoyed Pancake Day on 8th March, although my cooking seemed to leave a lot to be desired!
Just a few days later, on 11th March, Japan was decimated by a huge earthquake and associated tsunami.
With warm weather in March, we were able to enjoy a day out in the Cotswolds visiting Bourton-on-the-water.
March was also the month for a new beginning on reinstating the vegetable garden at Mum’s house – a project that was to last for the rest of the year.
The warm weather from March continued into April and on 3rd April we enjoyed a day in Burchetts Green at the Berkshire College of Agriculture‘s annual Lambing Day.
There was another flurry of work on the vegetable garden as I made the most of the lighter evenings to dig out more of the border and plant some vegetables including tomatoes, runner beans as well as a gooseberry bush and reinstating the rhubarb.
April 15th was Sarah’s birthday. We visited Hughenden Manor for the day and later enjoyed a meal at Marlow.
On Good Friday, a group of us including young people from our church enjoyed a river trip on the Thames travelling from Runnymede and culminating in a picnic on a hot afternoon when shade was in higher demand than the sunshine.
We made the most of the continuing summer temperatures with a visit to Greys Court on 28th April. We enjoyed a picnic lunch and the girls liked counting newts!
The 29th April was a special day as the whole country stopped to enjoy and share the Royal Wedding of Prince William and Kate Middleton. We had some of the family round to enjoy the festivities.
As April turned to May, it brought the news of the death of Osama bin Laden, after nearly a decade on the run following the events of 9/11.
We enjoyed another visit to Carters Steam Fair as they made their annual pilgrimage to Pinkneys Green. May also saw more hard work in the vegetable plot.
The 20th May was another eventful day as surprise news gradually trickled out concerning the engagement of good friends Alan and Jennifer. Very few people saw that coming!
We made our first visit of the year to Bournemouth on 3rd June, battling through the traffic to enjoy a fantastic day in the sunshine.
The 11th June was Maidenhead Carnival day. We were involved helping out our church stall in Kidwells Park for most of the day – but managed to escape occasionally!
Meantime, the vegetable plot continued to flourish.
On 28th June, four houses in Maidenhead were damaged by a lightning strike.
July was another birthday month as Rebekah and Emily celebrated their seventh and first birthdays respectively.
We went to Wellington Country Park on 9th July as a birthday treat for Rebekah.
Rebekah celebrated her birthday on 15th July with Emily following the day after.
July was also the month for ‘Sports Days’ with both Holly and Rebekah taking part.
At the end of the month, we spent a fantastic week away on holiday in Shropshire.
During August, Rebekah learnt to ride a bike, the vegetable plot continued to flourish, we enjoyed a church outing, dusted off the firepit, enjoyed a meal at Smiles, met up with relations from Canada and visited Basildon Park.
September continued as busy as August. We had good friends Freddie and Jen around for an excellent catch up and BBQ on 2nd September. The following day we enjoyed the big celebrations following the recent marriage of Alan and Jennifer.
Rebekah started at Juniors while Holly had her first day at Infants. We dodged the showers at Hurley, bid farewell to Alan Stone and joined Sarah’s parents as they celebrated their Ruby Wedding Anniversary.
October began with another visit to Cliveden on what turned out to be one of the hottest days of the year. The world mourned the passing of Steve Jobs, we enjoyed another afternoon at Carters Steam Fair in Holyport, went to a surprise 21st birthday party, went back to Cliveden again, went to Ray Mill Island and went to the Carters Steam Fair Open Day.
As October turned to November we bought tickets for the annual Cookham Scout Firework display and cleared up the vegetable plot. Holly celebrated her 5th birthday with a party and at the end of the month, we watched Maidenhead’s Christmas lights being switched on.
With the arrival of December came thoughts of Christmas. We took the girls up to Cliveden to see Father Christmas. I celebrated my 38th birthday with a few friends and a Chinese meal and took a few photos at my work’s Christmas party. We also went to see the completed work on Ray Mill Island.
Finally, Christmas Day arrived and with it came the seasonal influx of relations. We also had a fantastic Carols by Candlelight on Christmas Eve.
Each month in 2011, Rebekah and I also completed our walk to Cookham Dean and back – something we’ll look to continue into 2012.
Looking back, it’s been a busy year and I can’t see 2012 being any quieter.
It’s also been an emotional year. I’ve seen sights that I didn’t ever want to see and been through experiences that I never want to repeat again.
I’ve also visited some fantastic places and am so pleased to have a loving and supportive family and friends around me, and above all, faith in an amazing God – who has been with me every step of the way through the year.
As 2012 arrives, I’m looking forward to all the challenges, excitement and fun that lie ahead.
Happy New Year!
Here’s how it came through on Twitter:
2011 was a mixed year in many ways that I won't be sad to bid farewell to. Looking forward to all that 2012 will bring.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) December 31, 2011
The music's died as we cross over to BBC One, live from Embankment on this, New Year's Eve. #HappyNewYear
— Andrew Burdett (@AndrewBurdett1) December 31, 2011
An obsequious, Harpsichord-troubling Man-Frog does usher in the Year MMXII: no, 'tis Mister Jools HOLLAND #Hootenanny
— Samuel Johnson (@DrSamuelJohnson) December 31, 2011
BANG * BANG * BANG * BANG * BANG * BANG * BANG * BANG * BANG * BANG * BANG * BANG *
— Big Ben (@big_ben_clock) January 1, 2012
Happy New Year! 2012 has officially arrived! #HappyNewYear
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) January 1, 2012
HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! – Hope you all have a great 2012 🙂
— Stuart Bailey (@StuBaileyPhoto) January 1, 2012
http://twitter.com/pauldeans/statuses/153264300423774209
Happy New Year and best wishes for #2012. Look out for the Prime Minister's New Year message tomorrow at http://t.co/Ve9ENxJ8
— UK Prime Minister (@Number10gov) January 1, 2012
Happy new year one and all!
— Andrew Burdett (@AndrewBurdett1) January 1, 2012
Happy new year one and all
— Phil Wells (@nutterfreddie) January 1, 2012
Pretty impressive firework display #london
— Phil Wells (@nutterfreddie) January 1, 2012
Happy new year everyone! The year of the @London2012 Games has arrived!
— London 2012 (@London2012) January 1, 2012
Happy New Year to everyone back home in the UK. Watching the London fireworks live on #CNN – looks fantastic. Well done, Boris.
— Piers Morgan (@piersmorgan) January 1, 2012
Happy New Year everyone!!
— Little Chef (@littlechefcouk) January 1, 2012
Top drawer! Big year for #London and the #UK in #2012 RT @nutterfreddie: Pretty impressive firework display #london
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) January 1, 2012
Happy New Year and best wishes for 2012 from us all @ClarenceHouse.
— Clarence House (@ClarenceHouse) January 1, 2012
Early days yet… RT @sarahlbray: @PhilBray its now 2012 so you need to shave!! You said it was going on new years day and its 12.05am 😉
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) January 1, 2012
Happy New Year!
— Bex Cox (@bex__cox) January 1, 2012
One year, #London should try and be classy and set the #NewYear fireworks to classical music #1812 #LandofHopeandGlory
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) January 1, 2012
We managed to get out for a couple of walks during the Christmas break.
Below are a few shots from Marlow as well as a handful from the park at Cookham.
With the days of the year rapidly running out, Rebekah and I headed off on a cloudy afternoon for our monthly walk to Cookham Dean, for the final time in 2011.
Fortunately it was dry and also unseasonably mild for the duration of the walk.
Below are a few shots from the afternoon: