Forty-six year old Christian happily negotiating the world with a wife and three daughters
We had an excellent visit to Lacock Abbey which was topped off with tea in the garden at Adrian and Julie’s house.
Leaving home on a warm, sunny morning, we arrived at the Little Chef in Chippenham, before heading on to Lacock.
Arrived at @littlechefcouk in Chippenham. Promising start. Prompt, friendly service. Drinks arrived already.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) July 6, 2013
Lacock Abbey, owned by the National Trust, is built on the foundations of a former nunnery and houses a museum celebrating the work of former Lacock resident, William Henry Fox Talbot. The Abbey has also been used recently as a location for scenes in the Harry Potter films.
The car park is located slightly outside the village of Lacock, which is owned by the National Trust and remains virtually unchanged since the 18th Century.
Holly enjoyed looking at a sculpture in the grounds called The Light Umbrella, which sends reflected light through a series of holes in the umbrella to show all the colours of the spectrum.
We went inside the Abbey and looked around the cloisters, before heading inside.
Also inside the Abbey were various furnished rooms to look around, as well as a chance for the girls to dress up in period costume.
After leaving the Abbey, we were able to have a walk around the village of Lacock.
After returning to the car park, we drove to the nearby town of Calne for our first visit to Adrian and Julie’s house, where we spent an excellent afternoon in the summer sunshine.
Eventually we left and set off for the return home, travelling back with Mum who had enjoyed a brief break with Adrian and Julie.
Home after an excellent day out at @LacockNT, followed by meeting up with @BrayAnastasia and the family for an al fresco tea.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) July 6, 2013
On what turned out to be the warmest afternoon of the year so far, on the last day of the month, Rebekah and I headed up to Cookham Dean to complete our June walk.
Perfect summer weather for our monthly walk to Cookham Dean. Sunshine tempered by a cooling breeze. pic.twitter.com/GCULz9azWo
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) June 30, 2013
Al fresco tea to the backdrop of screaming swifts. Treasure these days.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) June 30, 2013
Busy day. Cut grass, go to butcher, school fair, another school open day, party for Holly, later bbq with @nutterfreddie and @LesleyGWells!
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) June 29, 2013
With a busy Saturday ahead of us, we were up early to prepare for all the different activities ahead.
In the morning we had to pick up various burgers and sausages for a somewhat unexpected BBQ due to take place in the evening.
We also popped over to Mum’s for coffee before heading off to Rebekah and Holly’s school fair.
BBQ food purchased. Coffee drunk. Now on to @RebekahLBray and @HollyIBray's school Summer Fair. The weather is an improvement on last year!
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) June 29, 2013
Unlike last year, the weather was much more favourable and we arrived in good time.
This year, they had additional activities laid on including maypole dancing and a falconry display which Holly volunteered to help with.
There was a large turnout of parents and other hangers-on and the fair was much busier when we left compared to when we arrived.
In the afternoon Sarah went off to an open day at her old school while I cut the grass and dusted off the BBQ in readiness for the evening ahead. Holly also had a party to go to.
In the evening we were pleased to welcome Freddie, Jen and the girls round, along with Freddie’s mum, Lesley. Fortunately the weather remained dry and warm and we later got the fire pit out and enjoyed hot marshmallows.
Freddie stayed behind, after his family had left and it was good to catch up and chat.
Busy day culminating in an excellent evening bbq with @nutterfreddie and family. Late night chatting around the firepit like old times.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) June 29, 2013
Since I added my original post about the demolition of my grandparents’ house, a few more photos of the place have come to light.
Some of them were found in an old photo album recently and the majority are kindly supplied by my Auntie Eileen – the same person who tried to feed me peanut butter! I’m grateful for her allowing me to use them on here.
We begin with a few photos from the building of 55 Cookham Road, which were taken during 1955. Most of these were kindly scanned in by my nephew, Hugh.

Foundations marked out. My grandmother overseeing the work with her grandad (with shovel) and my grandad behind. The two children are my Auntie Eileen and her brother, John

Building work well underway with the front door and front windows now in place. My mother is on the right. Behind the family is the large cedar tree.
We now move on to 1977 and a celebratory tea with the cousins on the loggia at the back of the house, with photos from Auntie Eileen.

From left to right: cousins Fiona, Nick, Jason and Tim. My sister, Heather, me (with bread) and cousin, Sarah.

Left to right: Tim, Adrian, my Grandma, Mr Dean (the Canadian’s other grandfather!), Heather, me, Mum, Fiona, Auntie Eileen, Sarah, Uncle John and Nick. Doll’s name unknown.
1983 saw another visit from the Canadian cousins and another excuse for group photos. This was also the memorable occasion when five of us slept outside in the tent and told ghost stories late into the evening!
Incredibly, it was thirty years ago this year and ended up being exactly halfway through the life of the old house!
Again, these photos are from Auntie Eileen.
Finally a few shots of the house in 2010, just after my Grandma had passed away, again supplied by Auntie Eileen and taken to remember the house as we all think of it.
It must be fairly rare that one family was involved in building their house, lived in it for 60 years and then oversaw its demolition.
Thankfully, although the house has now gone, the memories will live on.