A Few Ramblings…
Forty-six year old Christian happily negotiating the world with a wife and three daughters
Birthday Meal at Fifield Inn – 18 April 2015
With Sarah turning forty this week, we arranged a celebratory meal for us, her parents and twin Steven, with his wife Sarah. After some deliberation, the venue was confirmed as Fifield Inn in Fifield.
Once we’d settled in at our pre-booked table and arranged for the doors behind us to be closed, we were able to enjoy the evening.
The Fifield Inn has recently been refurbished and although Sarah and I had been before, it was many years ago – even before the children were born!
The decor, food and service were excellent and we would certainly look to return again.
Brian and Judith’s Wedding – 11 April 2015
Brian and Judith’s wedding took place on a sunny Saturday at our local church and was followed by a reception at the Berkshire College of Agriculture.
Bath time – 6 March 2015
The evening bath is piping hot
A kettle to the bathroom brought
Scalding water splashed end to end
White clouds of steam aloft ascend
Into this fragrant tub I slide
Beneath the bubbles, safe inside
There, with a book, I slowly stew
And quietly read a page or two
Sometimes the book is laid aside
My eyes no longer open wide
The daily cares vanish from sight
My head slips back, gives up the fight
And there for blissful moments doze
Oblivious of wrinkled toes
And slowly wake and realise
I accidently closed my eyes
With water warm, no longer hot
And bubbles now quite hard to spot
The plug is pulled. It’s time for bed.
Snug ‘neath the quilt, I rest my head.
Farewell to Uncle Den – 20 February 2015
Over 100 people gathered on a chilly morning at Eastleigh 
Baptist Church to bid farewell to a much-loved man, Dennis Bray.
Uncle Den had passed away unexpectedly some three weeks previously and family and friends travelled from all across the country to be present at the Thanksgiving Service for his life.
The service was taken by a friend of Uncle Den’s, the affable Reverend Paul Arnold, who began by mentioning some of his own memories of his time spent with Dennis over recent years.
Following both an opening prayer and the Lord’s Prayer, he announced the first hymn, one of Dennis’ favourites, Blessed assurance, Jesus is mine!
Dennis’ nephew, Adrian, then read from Revelation 21:1-7.
Rev Paul then returned to read a tribute about Dennis’ life which had been written by his daughter, Gillian and included details about Dennis’ time spent in the RAF as well as working with Pirelli and other memorable moments.
I was then able to read a few of my own memories of Uncle Den.
Dennis’ niece, Heather, then came up to read some further memories which had been received by Gillian following her dad’s death.
These were from Dennis’ cousins, Dorothy and Doreen, neither of whom were able to travel to the Thanksgiving Service, as well as a former Pirelli colleague and a friend of Dennis’ from his time in the RAF.
Following the tributes, Rev Paul gave a few reflections on Dennis’ life and passing including the fact that he was now in heaven with his Lord.
After a short prayer and second hymn, In heavenly love abiding, Rev Paul ended the service with a commendation and blessing.
We then made our way for a short committal service at Southampton Crematorium, before returning for refreshments at Eastleigh Baptist Church. Gillian had arranged a table which contained a number of photos of her dad. There was also a book which was passed around for people to write short messages in.
Farewell service at Eastleigh Baptist Church
Flowers in the RAF roundel
From Uncle Den’s grandson, Ruebyn
Flowers from daughter, Gillian and family
Flowers
Flowers from mum’s side of the family
Some of the flowers at the crematorium
More flowers
Table at the church set out with photos of Uncle Den
Some of the photos and RAF roundel
More shots, including one on Uncle Den’s 90th birthday
More photos and book of remembrance
Happy memories – back in a Spitfire at Goodwood
Dennis Bray 1923 – 2015
Overall the day went very well and it was good to meet up with some of the family as well as take the opportunity to speak to some of the ageing ex RAF members who had kindly come along to bid farewell to one of their own.
We had travelled down to the service with Rebekah and Holly and also gave a lift to Elaine Waites, who had come along to Uncle Den’s 90th birthday celebrations. On the way home, we also gave mum a lift and we all stopped off for a meal at Longbridge Mill, to break the journey.
A Few Ramblings... 