Forty-six year old Christian happily negotiating the world with a wife and three daughters
This afternoon we joined a number of others at the inaugral Carters Steam Fair Open Afternoon which was held at their yard close to White Waltham airfield.
We had little difficulty in finding the yard which had been well signposted with a Carters van parked at the entrance to the industrial estate by the main road.
The road down to the yard itself was somewhat narrow and we ended up parking on the kerb and walking down to it, passing a number of Carters lorries on the way.
The entrance itself was up a step and into a small terrapin. Here we were greeted by a couple of the Carters steam who charged us the one pound admission (for the Willow Foundation) and stamped our hands with a sign to indicate that we had paid.
From there we moved into a larger room where a man was busy painting one of the signs. There was also the option to have a specially created sign either for a house or for a child’s room. With prices around the £60 mark, we decided to move on.
Outside, all of the Scammell lorries were displayed and many of them were in steam. It was quite busy with a large number of attendees appearing to be fans of steam. There were a number of elderly gentlemen sporting various beards. All appeared to be in their element – given the array of steam-powered machinary on display!
Also in full swing outside was the old organ which was busy pumping out its tunes. This, combined with the evocative smell of steam helped to create a real sense of the fair.
The girls climbed onto a double-decker bus at one point to find a surly man on board. Somebody else who climbed on and wanted to go upstairs just to ‘take a photo’ received the curt reply ‘Not upstairs mate. No!’. It was perhaps the only sign of unfriendliness that we encountered.
We went into a couple of the large sheds where repainting was being carried out on one of the rides. Also displayed was a model of the ‘steam yachts’, as well as various old steam fair posters and photographs.
We exited through the same narrow room where we came in, pausing only for the girls to buy a Steam Fair poster each, for their bedroom walls.
After leaving the Carters yard we decided to drive over to Henley. The girls enjoyed playing in the park, we had a browse around the shops and ended up enjoying a hot chocolate in The Chocolate Theatre Cafe!
We appear to have accidentally entered an establishment known as #TheChocolateTheatreCompany #careless
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) October 29, 2011
I took this photo of Grandma on 7th October 2010 and I realise now that it’s the last photo that I took of her. A few weeks after I took this, she would leave us.
Grandma had to renew her Disabled Parking Permit and rather than go to the hassle of getting it taken in town, I took this for her in her lounge.
Seeing it again reminds me how much she was a part of my life and how much I still miss her being around.
We always used to joke about Christmas coming and how quickly the years flew by. Little did I realise when I took this photo that she had already enjoyed her last Christmas with us.
It’s sad that Emily will have no memory of her Great-Grandma. Grandma always loved babies and she would have found Emily very amusing. Fortunately Rebekah and Holly remember her and still talk about her.
Last week we went to visit her grave and Holly, in typical Holly style, leaned over the grave and called out ‘Hello Great-Grandma!’ while giving a friendly wave!
Last Christmas was something of a blur that I passed through on auto-pilot. This one will be tough in many ways as we try and make things as memorable as possible for the girls. In the back of my mind, my thoughts will be of both Grandma and Dad and of all the happy times that we enjoyed at Christmas over the years.
I miss you Grandma. x
With work being planned on Ray Mill Island, and the prospect of it being closed for five weeks, we decided to pay a visit to look at the autumn colours.
On the way back to the car park we saw a fire engine reverse up to the river and prepare to pump water out. While we were watching, the firemen kindly allowed Rebekah and Holly to have a go with their hose!
I took the day off for the first day of half-term and, with a sunny afternoon ahead of us, we decided to drive up to Cliveden.
Mum was able to join us and Rebekah and Holly decided to go up in her car for the short journey across from Cookham.
Despite the cars parked on the grass near the main entrance, we were able to press on and found spaces fairly easily in the main car-park.
From there we walked up to the house along the main drive.
Before reaching the house, we stopped off to visit the Secret Garden.
The girls were keen to walk down to the statue at the end of the Parterre and we walked down the main steps and out onto the lawn.
Before we went to the play area, there was time to stop in the restaurant for some light sustenance.
As we walked through the Water Garden, managing to bypass the maze, I spotted a heron fishing in the lake and managed to get a couple of shots before catching up with the others in the play area.
The heron was still there on the way back and managed to catch a fish while we were watching it.
Our visit finished with the ubiquitous trip to the shop before we headed homewards.