Forty-six year old Christian happily negotiating the world with a wife and three daughters
All the photos from the Big Day on 3rd September 2011:
We spent a very enjoyable afternoon, along with a couple of hundred others, in joining in the wedding celebrations of our good friends Alan and Jennifer.
Alan and Jennifer were married on 23rd July 2011 in a small ceremony up at a castle in Scotland which only members of the family attended. This afternoon was a chance for them to share their happiness with a wider circle of friends.
The afternoon took place in dry and at times sunny weather, at Oakwood Youth Challenge, an activity centre in Wokingham which we first visited a couple of years ago.
Although there were various activities organised during the afternoon, including a hire-ropes walk and archery, we ended up spending most of the time catching up with friends and those we hadn’t seen for some time.
The girls disappeared off to play with other children their age and enjoyed running around in the open space and up and down the hills chasing each other, as children do.
One large room had a video showing highlights from the wedding as well as some photos from Alan and Jennifer’s honeymoon in Cuba.
Another room was set up for drinks including delicious lemonade custom-made for the occasion by Samuelsons of Witney!
The afternoon passed quickly and before long it was time for the cutting-of-the-cake. This ceremony took place on a raised dais surrounded by wooden shelters with ample space for the many onlookers.
The cake was part of the happy couple’s original wedding cake and the cutting mirrored that which had taken place some six weeks earlier.
Later, it was time for the food which was supplied by outside caterers and consisted of a hog roast. Both of the girls were interested to see the pig, still mounted on its pole, following the cooking. Once the food was available, a long queue rapidly developed as word spread.
Following the main course, a smorgasbord of desserts, including cut slices of the wedding cake were produced.
As the afternoon moved into the evening, James Jury provided entertainment for the masses including an impromptu game of Mr and Mrs for the newlyweds followed by a competition to see which of them could build the highest tower using spaghetti and marshmallows.
This was followed by a comical re-enactment of Alan’s morning routine with Jennifer’s arms playing the part of Alan’s as he ‘carried out’ tasks including washing, shaving and eating breakfast.
Michelle Jury then read a couple of moving poems penned by Alan’s nieces over in New Zealand.
Victor, Alan’s Dad, concluded the formal proceedings with a short epilogue before James ran through the story of Alan’s ‘Hot Stuff’ socks which he wore to every wedding he attended since 1998 until his own. The socks, of which little remained, were ritually ripped apart.
It was an excellent afternoon, a chance to both renew old acquaintances and meet new friends as well as being able to share in Alan and Jennifer’s happiness.
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5th September – I’m still working through the 274 photos which I took at Alan and Jennifer’s Celebrations. I’ll add the best of them on here over the next few days.
We had an entertaining evening when Freddie and Jen came around for a BBQ.
They were up staying over in Maidenhead in readiness for Alan and Jennifer’s wedding celebrations which are due to take place in Wokingham tomorrow.
Freddie and Jen had kindly opted to bring their own food to cook on the BBQ. Our only problem was that there was too much food for our miniature folding BBQ so the decision was taken to hastily assemble our new £10 (reduced from £30!) BBQ which we had bought in Wilkinson some weeks before.
Fortunately the BBQ assembly only took some 20 minutes or so, although with the shorter evenings, the night was closing in by the time it came to start cooking.
Fortunately I was able to dig out an old floodlight which we eventually rigged up by hooking it onto a parasol stand wedged into the hedge. This then provided ample illumination for cooking by.
Other lighting, provided by candles, gave some definition to the food, plates and glasses on the table.
The al fresco evening passed with much merriment and laughter – not least caused by my consuming a glass and a half of wine!
Wine has definitely gone to @philbray head tonight, giggling like a girl at his own jokes
— Phil Wells (@nutterfreddie) September 2, 2011
Eventually Freddie and Jen disappeared into the night after helping us set the garden straight.
A great night.
Had an enjoyable evening catching up with @philbray and @sarahlbray
— Phil Wells (@nutterfreddie) September 2, 2011
With the final Bank Holiday of the summer upon us, and reasonable weather to boot, we decided to head off to make use of our National Trust membership once more.
Today our venue was Basildon Park, a large house located close to Pangbourne. Following a welcome, if rather short, lie-in we headed off, arriving around 11am.
Today we're at #BasildonPark making more use of our @NationalTrust membership.
— Phil Bray (@PhilBray) August 29, 2011
The car-park is located close to some woods and we had to climb up a hill through the trees in order to reach the main house.
With some time to use up before the house opened for ‘free-flow’ at 12pm, we decided to repair to the restaurant for a coffee and shortbread.
Once we made it inside the house, the girls found it interesting seeing the rooms, many of which were laid out as they had been in the 1950s. Holly was particularly interested in the numerous Horrockses dresses that were being displayed as part of an exhibition at the house while Rebekah enjoyed the Shell Room – a room with shells covering all the furniture.
Both of the girls enjoyed seeing the 1950s kitchen where a lady was making drop scones. Holly spent ages whisking in an empty bowl!
After wandering around the house for some time we adjourned outside for a picnic lunch. Basildon is well set up with several well-spaced picnic tables in among the trees.
After lunch we had a short walk around the grounds before heading for the ubiquitous shop and home.
The girls were keen to also visit the annual Littlewick Show in Maidenhead and went along with Sarah’s parents.
Later, after watering the vegetable plot and spending some time at Mum’s house, we met up with them all and ended up at Toby Carvery for dinner.
Another busy Bank Holiday had passed. It seems a long time until the next one – Christmas Day!